Warning Signs that Abuse May Occur

From the moment singer Chris Brown allegedly beat his girlfriend Rihanna on the eve of the Grammy Awards, America has been shocked and polarized by the story. How could Chris do that? And how could Rihanna even think about going back to him after what appeared to be such a brutal beating? With the help of best-selling author Bishop T.D. Jakes, Dr. Phil offers up some straight talk about domestic violence.

If you fear your relationship could take a violent turn, consider these warning signs:

• History of past battering
• Threats of violence
• Breaking objects
• Use of force during arguments
• Unreasonable jealousy
• Controlling behavior
• Quick involvement in the relationship
• Verbal abuse, blaming others for problems
• Cruelty to children and animals
• Abrupt mood changes