Quote From: naaj15I just watched Dr. Phil's show and he talked about joining the message boards for support, which is what I need. I am 5'2" and currently weigh about 140 pounds. Not obese, but definitely not where I should be/want to be. Plus, my husband and I are trying to get pregnant and I know that extra weight can make it harder. My highest weight was about 162 and my lowest was actually 113. I think healthy for me would be about 115-120. I have an unhealthy relationship with food. I think about it ALL THE TIME. Constantly thinking about what I'm going to eat next. Going into the kitchen and looking in the fridge and pantry about twenty times a day. I know what I should be eating, but my husband is 6'3" and only like 170 pounds and can eat anything he wants. I feel bad about taking away his "snacks" just because I don't have the willpower not to eat them myself. Also, I do not know how to cook...at all. I really need help, advice, suggestions!
Hello,
I myself am 5'2" Since I'm muscular and somewhat larger of frame my goal is 125 lbs. My lowest high school wgt was 117 and that didn't last long. I currently weigh 163. I'm not happy with that but seven years ago I weighed 197 so I'm happy that I have maintained this much weight loss since I lost weight five years ago. I wanted to comment about your husband. If he really must have bad snacks see if you can convince him to take them to work. On another note even though he is thin doesn't make his arteries etc healthy. The high fructose corns syrups, bad fats and refined flour and sugar are equally bad for his blood chemistry and his longevity. Additionally if you learn to not keep bad food choices in the house when you do have children they won't learn bad food habits as easily. I have struggled with my wgt forever but I try to only keep good mostly unprocessed food in the house with the exception of some ww bread and cereals. I have three children 16,14 and 6.5 and none of them are over wgt. I do occasionally bring a treat in to the house or take them out for a treat so they aren't deprived and learn how to have an occasional treat.
On the cooking piece keep it simple. Get a George Forman type indoor grill and if possible an outdoor grill then for supper just make sure you have a lean protein to cook and two veges to toss in the microwave and a glass of milk and you have dinner. My family is pretty use to that. Most of Dr. Phils suppers in his book support the meat and two veges. Avoid starch at supper or fancy casseroles full of fats and starch. I also have just ordered a NuWave oven that is suppose to be able to cook meat that comes straight from the freezer. If you are interested I will let you know what I think. Good luck!