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October 19, 2005, 12:29 pm PDT
hmmm
Quote From: shultzyWell, here is my situation. I am 18 and i have been datign a 17 year old female for a year now, she doesn't want to have sex till she is marred but i do. this is somethign that i feel rather strong about and she doesn't wnt to lose me due to this. our relationship is great, we only fight abotu that. in my mind i would like to break up with her for someone sexualy active, but i can't, i love her.. she always says she is scared to do anything, even when we talk abotu getting a place together in a year or so. i think she still wants to be a kid, because a lot of the time she acts like one and enjoys, what i think is stupid, small things that i thought were fun when i was 12.. both of my parents say that a relationship consist of %50 lve and %50 sex, what happens when we get married and she doesn't enjoy it?? i would not be able to live with that... please help me anyone Sex is not worth losing a loving relationship...period! If she is waiting, you HAVE to respect her wishes and not pressure her. That is not fair to her. IF you think it's not fair to you. Then let her go and let her find someone that will appreciate her for her! I realize you are both young and you can't find many girls that won't have sex no a days....but you did. And if you love her and she is a great girl...HOLD ON tight. And take a cold shower!
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