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October 18, 2005, 10:53 pm PDT
10/18 "I Am Right!"
Quote From: future_meBig Congrats to Mark! That is totally awesome, dude!
For everyone out there that is saving him or herself for marriage-- for that one, true partner that is "the one," hold out. He or she is out there, and you'll come across him/her one day. I met my fiance in a shopping mall, and for some crazy reason, let my friend give him my number. Those are two things that I really never pictured myself doing, but for some reason (I attribute to God), I did. And now we have a wonderful relationship and promising future. I am fortunate-- I am very young and have found my soul mate.
To Mark and all the others out there- hold strong-- he/she is out there, and you are saving the best gift ever!! You won't regret it! Agreed! Speaking as a person who was quite "active" before marraige, in looking back I really wish I would have waited also. Mark, You are not missing anything in waiting, except maybe the regrets that could follow once you do meet your true love. I've gotta echo Dr. Phil though, in that it is good to remain open, when it comes to your pre-determined idea of who/what your "perfect love" will be. To assign her personality, physical attributes, and even her NAME..(sorry, just gotta razz you on THAT one! =)) could really hinder your possibilities of finding the right person. Again, speaking from personal experience here, had I only been open toward my "preferences" at the time, my hubby would not have stood a chance with me! And I would have missed out on a really wonderful person and relationship. (happily married 18 years now!) All of this aside, hang in there! Your "virtuous" standards are a good thing!
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