Misadventurs of On Line Dating. I have met several very nice guy on line. Some have become great friends. There was no spark between us but we had so much in common we decided to be just friends. You can never have too many friends....now for the misadventures. I have met two different guys with the same outcome. We emailed, instant messaged and spoke on the phone for hours on end. We would discuss everything, and I do mean everything. Finally we would meet, go out on several dates and really have great times. With both there was a mutual attraction, common interests etc. Then a day comes when we have a difference of opinion or some type of disagreement. These men I spoke to for weeks disappear. It's like they fell off the face of the earth. They don't take phone calls, respond to emails, or talk on messanger. The minute we find a issue we don't agree on they can't deal with it. There is no communication. What gives. I am an honest person and I don't sleep around. My personal values are discussed day one so that isn't the issue. With one guy it was the marriage issue. I'm not looking for a husband but I would like to someday settle down with my soulmate. Well this guy said he will NEVER marry again so he stopped communicating with me. He feels there is no way we can date because down the road I will want more. The second one was the issue of how often we will get together and a statement I made that I would like to be somewhat a priority in the life of the guy I am dating. I still haven't heard from him. He was upset because he felt I was demanding he go on a date with me instead of taking care of chores at his house. How do you get a great guy that you can talk to about anything, communicate instead of running away when an issue arises. What am I doing so wrong. The second guy I really care about and can see my self falling deeply in love with. But he won't talk to me because he misunderstood an email I sent to him. I can't fix the problem if he won't communicate. I have left messages and emails, I have apologized for the miscommunication.
Why can't men face an issue. I feel I lost my soulmate in this one. We were great together. Any advice is greatly appreciated.
