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October 19, 2005, 7:37 am PDT
WAY TO GO MARK
Quote From: kadjia Agreed! Speaking as a person who was quite "active" before marraige, in looking back I really wish I would have waited also. Mark, You are not missing anything in waiting, except maybe the regrets that could follow once you do meet your true love. I've gotta echo Dr. Phil though, in that it is good to remain open, when it comes to your pre-determined idea of who/what your "perfect love" will be. To assign her personality, physical attributes, and even her NAME..(sorry, just gotta razz you on THAT one! =)) could really hinder your possibilities of finding the right person. Again, speaking from personal experience here, had I only been open toward my "preferences" at the time, my hubby would not have stood a chance with me! And I would have missed out on a really wonderful person and relationship. (happily married 18 years now!) All of this aside, hang in there! Your "virtuous" standards are a good thing! I completely agree!!!! But, didn't anyone think that Dr. Phil was a little too hard on Mark. I mean don't almost all women want a "Mark"? I always thought I wanted some hopeless romantic, someone who would say nice things to me and really put me up in a petastool (did I spell that correctly?) hehee. OH, MArk kudos and you will find her...especially now that you've been on the show, millions of viewers are probably saying....Oh my gosh Sara found him....let's call her. I bet Dr. Phil will have a future show on the many Sara's that respond, thinking that Mark is their "soulmate." Ha ha....I think he is awesome and Dr. Phil should have said nice things to him, like what an awesome person you are and that all that he believes in is very rare and precious. I bet it has been hard work for him. Don't get me wrong Dr. Phil did say some stuff I completely agree with like, it is good to remain open, when it comes to your pre-determined idea of who/what your "perfect love" will be. To assign her personality, physical attributes, and even her NAME.. could really hinder your possibilities of finding the right person
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