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September 16, 2008, 6:47 pm PDT
 Quote From: dtrudeau1 my now ex wife made false accusations and called 911 after I served with divorce papers claiming "I'm afraid fo what he MIGHT do". This claim had me removed from our home, this resulted in a restraining order preventing me from contact my two children as well. Under this cloak, she was no able to move at will without any family/probate court hearing.
She moved 1200 miles away from FL to Mass. Knowing this would be an ugly custody matter, I moved to Mass. as well (both our native home). As soon as she found out I was in the area, she called my town police and claimed I was "stalking" her; she called her local police and said I "loosen up the lugs nuts" on her car. Week after week I was battling allegations of violence, mishief and she later called my employer claiming I was violent and she had an RO... resulting in my release from work.
This carried on and on until Family/Probate court decided my rights to parent OUR children, vistation and now shared custody. Her allegations have stopped AFTER the family court intervened, granting my children and I liberty to be a family.
Although divided and prevented from contacting them, talking to them, visiting or calling... our 18 months apart during moms temper tantrum and rage towards has not hindered my childrens feelings towards me and now openly speak about how what "mom did was wrong". I'm told they were constantly asking for me, but her excuse was "the courts won't let you"... little did she say, they were acting on her complaints and allegations.
So, after a DCYF investigation, court ordered anger management/ batterers intevention classes, 6 months of psych. care and endless evaluations, her complaints about me abusing her, abusing drugs, abusing alcohol... all busted with these reports and investigations.
Consequently, the FL judge terminated her RO for her based on my defense... Mass., well, still too big a business to remove that from her.
In turn, I live in fear, wondering when her next allegation/ accusation will take place and what will that do to my career and relationship with my children.
Sincerely, David in Providence. This is so sad. It amazes me what lengths people will go to (lying) to get what they want, especially when it comes to children being involved. It's sad what your ex put your children through, and yet, see how they KNOW in their hearts, who was wrong (mom) and who was right (you!) I feel so sad for the kids, that they were asking for you and she would not allow them to talk to you. God Bless you, I hope the truth will be known. The good thing is, your kids are growing older, and will be able to know right from wrong, truth from lies. Take good care David |
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September 19, 2008, 6:23 pm PDT
Quote From: dtrudeau1 my now ex wife made false accusations and called 911 after I served with divorce papers claiming "I'm afraid fo what he MIGHT do". This claim had me removed from our home, this resulted in a restraining order preventing me from contact my two children as well. Under this cloak, she was no able to move at will without any family/probate court hearing.
She moved 1200 miles away from FL to Mass. Knowing this would be an ugly custody matter, I moved to Mass. as well (both our native home). As soon as she found out I was in the area, she called my town police and claimed I was "stalking" her; she called her local police and said I "loosen up the lugs nuts" on her car. Week after week I was battling allegations of violence, mishief and she later called my employer claiming I was violent and she had an RO... resulting in my release from work.
This carried on and on until Family/Probate court decided my rights to parent OUR children, vistation and now shared custody. Her allegations have stopped AFTER the family court intervened, granting my children and I liberty to be a family.
Although divided and prevented from contacting them, talking to them, visiting or calling... our 18 months apart during moms temper tantrum and rage towards has not hindered my childrens feelings towards me and now openly speak about how what "mom did was wrong". I'm told they were constantly asking for me, but her excuse was "the courts won't let you"... little did she say, they were acting on her complaints and allegations.
So, after a DCYF investigation, court ordered anger management/ batterers intevention classes, 6 months of psych. care and endless evaluations, her complaints about me abusing her, abusing drugs, abusing alcohol... all busted with these reports and investigations.
Consequently, the FL judge terminated her RO for her based on my defense... Mass., well, still too big a business to remove that from her.
In turn, I live in fear, wondering when her next allegation/ accusation will take place and what will that do to my career and relationship with my children.
Sincerely, David in Providence. I am mother of three beautiful girls ages 10 8 and 7. I have given up my my life for these children. I have been a stay at home mom since the second was born. I bring them everywhere with me and do everything with them. They are into gymnastics and it is very excpensive so the gymnastics school gave me a job to help pay. My husband and I have been having some problems with finances and he is very stressed trying to provide for all of us. This past summer we were fighting and i called the police for some help. Help!!! What I got was a huge mess. There was no physical abuse but some emotional and they reported it to dss. What a mess. We are wonderful loving parents and love our children more than anything in tis world. They went to see my children at school, talked to the principal who stated we were one of there top parents involved with the childrens school, talked to the pediatricion and the girls are all up to date with everything. We got a letter stating that there was neglacte.. where??
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