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October 21, 2005, 4:05 pm PDT

Competitive Family Relationships

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Music is a way of expressing emotions. We all have different likes and dislikes, and when we are young, we tend to change our minds a lot about what we like and dislike. If your parents don't have a problem with what you listen to, and you can discern what is truly sending negative messages, then your papi's sister should back off. The fact that she resorts to hitting when she can't get you to agree with her shows that she needs to attend to the messages in her music a little more, and stop preaching about yours.
thank you.im thats what im saying.i dont know why she gets so pissed like now im listening to H.I.M and SLIPKNOT.and my mom and papi dont care.they will just leave the room.why cant she?
 
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October 23, 2005, 2:17 pm PDT

try a happy medium

Quote From: ritehere

Music is a way of expressing emotions. We all have different likes and dislikes, and when we are young, we tend to change our minds a lot about what we like and dislike. If your parents don't have a problem with what you listen to, and you can discern what is truly sending negative messages, then your papi's sister should back off. The fact that she resorts to hitting when she can't get you to agree with her shows that she needs to attend to the messages in her music a little more, and stop preaching about yours.
i was always taught to appreciate all kinds of music, even if i didn't like it, like OPERA. Yuck. I have taught my kids the same thing. I don't like some of their music and they don't like some of mine.  But we try to respect each others choices.  Maybe you could talkabout finding some music you can both enjoy.   and PLEASE don't hit her anymore, Someday she won't be around any more.  Then you will wish you had done things differently.  Good luck.
 


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