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September 25, 2008, 11:22 pm PDT

I had a dream the other night-

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I must say that LACK OF ACCEPTANCE can overwhelm you in your DREAMS. I spent many nights waking up in a sweat after having a dream with my MOTHER not APPROVING OF ME in my daily life although she passed away. My MOTHER had a hold of my subconcious and it was quite difficult to deal with. After 10 years of feeling this way I knew that FORGIVING her was the only way to get on with my life. Once I did that the BAD DREAMS went away and finally MY LIFE HAD JUST BEGUN. I am FREE of the PAST which has helped me COPE with anything that comes my way. I was once HOMELESS and was able to get myself BACK ON MY FEET with a STRONG CONVICTION that going forward things could only get better. Well it did and I am able to LIKE myself now for the PERSON I HAVE BECOME...POSITIVE!

about the kindergarten teacher actually.  I woke up to find neighbours playing music 6.40 in the morning.  Often I find that kind of thing happening.  A bad dream then woken up suddenly.  It would be even worse, being woken up, on the street.  Makes one want to do better, that's for sure.

 

Deprevation is sometimes worse than gaol.

 

There was an experiment to find out if one could get a disease from malnutrition.  Prisoners were used, they went from being happy & cooperative to aggressive & very unhappy.  Yet they came from gaols that were shocking by todays standards.  Just because they weren't allowed to eat meat, vegetables & milk & so didn't get enough folate.

 

Sleep, people can die without enough. 

 

Being on the street, probably is worse, for these reasons, I imagine.

 

 
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September 25, 2008, 11:45 pm PDT

I don't know what it is about mothers

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I must say that LACK OF ACCEPTANCE can overwhelm you in your DREAMS. I spent many nights waking up in a sweat after having a dream with my MOTHER not APPROVING OF ME in my daily life although she passed away. My MOTHER had a hold of my subconcious and it was quite difficult to deal with. After 10 years of feeling this way I knew that FORGIVING her was the only way to get on with my life. Once I did that the BAD DREAMS went away and finally MY LIFE HAD JUST BEGUN. I am FREE of the PAST which has helped me COPE with anything that comes my way. I was once HOMELESS and was able to get myself BACK ON MY FEET with a STRONG CONVICTION that going forward things could only get better. Well it did and I am able to LIKE myself now for the PERSON I HAVE BECOME...POSITIVE!
their influence is just 'out there'.  Never remains in the way that portrayed in the 'ideal' way, in the home.  But in the minds & hearts of everyone.  Like one can't exist, it's difficult to not be dealing with family when dealing with other things.  Of two minds but completely different. 
 


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