Quote From: bamagirl13I am willing to get a divorce even if he's not, I'm in the process of saving up money right now, to pay for everything and not having to be in finacale need later with my two kids.....
I don't know how to take power. I want this man in my life
BG, you are already beginning to take your power back if you have decided what you want, have a course of action laid out, and have started action to get there.
My only question is why aren't you talking to your husband about divorce? Why do you think you have to pay for it all by yourself? He is in the marriage too you know. He may be just as willing to divorce as you, but was as afraid to bring it up as you.
Why haven't you mentioned it to him?
And by the way, does it feel better to have a plan?
