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January 1, 2006, 8:38 pm PST

Ready for Marriage?

Quote From: crazy13

So i 21 years old and have been dating my boyfriend for about a year and a half and  living together after 2 months .everything is great except i cant seem to get over the fact that he was married. 

he has nothing to do with her now , but when he talks about us getting married i think it is funny only because he has already planned to spend the rest of his life with someone else i know all of this is silly but i cant get over it, i love him this the only thing keeping me from saying yes. 

thank-you  

I understand how you feel. My bf was married before and I couldn't get over it for the longest time. I always compaired myself to her and was mad that he married he so soon (less than 4 months) and after 2 years and a baby, we are still not married. I felt like I wasn't as good as her, etc. I have gone to counseling and recently started taking antidepressant and that has helped me out a lot. I would suggest going to counseling. It will help. Also, it will get better with time.
 


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