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October 20, 2005, 7:40 am PDT
Betrayal
Quote From: ritehereHas your friend always been so free with advice and discipline regarding YOUR children, but not her own? If she's always been like this, I would wonder why you put up with it for so long. If it's new behavior, then there might be something wrong that she is taking out on you and your kids.
Same goes for her kids, have they always been in your kids faces, hitting and yelling? If this is all new, something might be up at home. In the beggining, my friend seemed helpful and almost like a big sister. She came into my life when I was separating with my husband. She was soooo helpful and almost too good to be true. By the time I became uncomfortable with her actions, regarding my children I didn't know how to confront the issue. My friend does not deal with conflict "at all". I knew if I said anything she would no longer be my friend. I finally said something and that is exactly what happened. I am very hurt, I really feel that you should be able to be honest with a true friend and she just wouln't allow me to be honest with her. I don't even want to make an effort to make new friends because I am tired of people that want to live a fantasy. I want to hear the truth, even if I don't like it, most people don't want truth. How can you have a friendship with no trust?
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