Quote From: jordanjI was a little surprised that Dr. Phil said this was a phase for the 4 year old who dressed up in womens clothes and asked why God didn't make him a girl. The child is being his authentic self without reservation. He likes what he likes, girls toys, clothes, etc. He doesn't like what he doesn't like, boys toys. That's it. He is being who he really is without societal pressure telling him who he should or should not be. His mother is homophobic. Well that's probably why God gave her a child likely to be gay, to teach her to love. Because being homophobic is about hate and anger, not love.
I am 27, and was exactly like that 4 year old, and guess what, I'm gay. I don't know why, I just always new since I was 6. However, I don't like wearing womens clothes now as an adult - they're just too revealing LOL. But I played with girls toys, didn't like the boys toys. Loved being friends with girls, didn't like hanging out with boys but was always attracted. So let people be who they are. God made each of us unique and out of love. As long as you aren't hurting anybody, it's ok. The mother - is hurting herself by hanging on to the homophobia anger and hate. The child is just being himself and she'll end up hurting him unless she lets the love in.
Accept what God created and stop judging. Love one another for all our glorious uniqueness.
The little boy may or may not be gay. I honestly don't know. If he feels like a little girl, it sounds like he may have gender dysphoria. But then again, he is only 4. Who knows what will happen. I just hope he ends up happy and healthy.
