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September 27, 2008, 11:15 pm PDT
10/02 Stressed Out to the Max
Quote From: kczyblnd41 I am married to a man that his exwife will try anything to turn his boys against him!!!! she even has in the past when they have returned from a visit asked the youngest son " did they hurt you in any way shape or form/" and my husband or i have never ever in any way abused these children !!! she got in the youngest ones face and told him " your dad is a no good piece of s--- !!!" has even told them he doesn't pay child support which is a bold faced lie !!!!! watch out for the vengeful ex wife and the courts and child support enforcement beleive everything that they say !!!!!! the man doesn't have a chance in hell with the system and the women know this. i myself have 2 sons and am divorced and would have never said these things to my boys about their father !!!!! they can say they have never heard me talk about their dad !!!! and my husband is an excellent dad has always gotten them for visitation ( even though they are 6 hours away one way ) she has always lived far away to make it difficult for him to see them but it didn't work he still saw them and they know who he is and who their grandparents and aunt and uncle are!!! beware of these women !!!! men to it too!!! I am grateful that my man's ex wife is a wonderful lady and wonderful mother to their kids. He isn't actually their bio dad, but he raised them 7 years and does way more for them than their bio dad does. This is one of the reasons I love him so much. He has the biggest heart. I love those kids like they are mine as well. We have an interesting and loving blended family. Though we have none of our own because we can't afford it right now. Yes I am on Medi-cal...and only medi-cal. I was planning on going off of it when I was working but then got fired :(
My man's ex and I agree that it is best for the kids for us to be friends...which isn't hard because we have lots in common and help each other when we need to talk about what bothers us..whether it be work, family, kids, or even..comparing if my man ever told her last minute he didn't have clean work clothes lol.
For some reason I am always great friends w/my ex's and current's exes. I don't know why that is. There are kids involved and they are the most important in this whole big picture. I have made 4 wonderful female friends due to my ex's and my current man. I couldn't feel more blessed.
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