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September 28, 2008, 12:46 am PDT
LOVE, HONOR AND TRUST YOUR CHILDREN
Quote From: fanni50
You have to teach your children at a very young age right from wrong and when to say OK or run. You have to give them a reason to give you trust. If this is done and you continue it through out their growing up years then you shouldn't have to hover.
Too much hovering may cause a child to become distant and keep things from you which in return will cause a hovering mother or parent to wonder if their child can be trusted.
Show them love, honer and trust. Make sure your time with your child is quality and give some of yourself to them instead over them. I WAS SO IMPRESSED WITH YOUR WORDS OF KNOWLEDGE...LOVE, HONOR AND TRUST YOUR CHILDREN.
ANOTHER THING THAT
I LIKED WAS GIVE
THEM "QUALITY TIME". SO MANY PARENTS TODAY ARE BOTH WORKING SO BY THE TIME THEY GET HOME, THE CHILDREN ARE
IN THEIR INDIVIDUAL ROOMS MOSTLY ON THEIR COMPUTERS OR WATCHING TV
OR ARE OFF DOING SPORTS AND OTHER ACTIVITIES.
WHEN IT COMES TO DINNER TIME,
THE FAMILY DOES
NOT SIT AT A TABLE
TO EAT TOGETHER
AND TAKE TIME TO HAVE A FAMILY DISCUSSION WHICH
MY FAMILY DOES DO
AT LEAST 5 NIGHTS A WEEK.
ANOTHER PART OF YOUR MESSAGE I
LIKED WAS "GIVE
SOME OF YOURSELF
TO THEM INSTEAD OF OVER THEM". BEING A PARENT IS SUCH A HARD JOB, BUT IT IS REWARDING THAT YOUR "CHILDREN
LEARN WHAT THEY LIVE"..IT SOUNDS YOU KEEP YOUR FAMILY WITH A STRONG BOND OF LOVE ALONG WITH ALL OF WHAT YOU SHARED OF YOUR PARENTAL WISDOM.
I AMIRE YOU...THANKS !!!!!!!
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