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October 4, 2008, 9:08 am PDT
 Quote From: triplel29 This is just another avenue for the lawyers to get more money out of people. No one pays attention to the signs of abuse that children. continue to be exposed to. It's all about every parent having a relationship with their kids at the cost of the child's well being. No one wants to get off the fence and help the children and take the time to explore what's really going on so they invent some other ridiculous syndrome. My son continues in counseling and states "no one listens to what he' s telling them goes on at his dad's house" and up until recently has been forced to go reluctantly. Not to say that this type of thing does ot happen but come on, let's get real. Who's protecting our children in the judicial system? No one wants to take the time for they are inundated with so many cases. Has anyone thought about maybe changing the laws to protect our children not insure every parent has a relationship with their child. If they're abusive in anyway, shape or form they do not deserve to have a relationship with their child or children and children should not have to be exposed to it. They are children, let them have the innocence of being children.
I absolutely agree with your opinion. It's the children that are forgotten in this mess. When they choose to protect themselves and refuse visitation - they're forced. They're comments and feelings are ignored, in the name of fairness. What about the emotional and physical health of these children. As parents we are helpless, courts fail and lawyers are bound - my lawyer stated that even a crack addict would get every second weekend. My daughter was too little to manipulate, being only one and a half when she started refusing. Her very disturbing behavior after visitation was dismissed because it was thought that I was only being vindictive. The investigation lasted approx 30hrs. My daughters comments at 2y/o have been "we need a new mommy for daddy's house, you're not a good mommy" , and "when mommy dies we have to call the police" have all been dismissed. Since then we have been on the offensive. There has been 3 applications for sole custody in a year (which conveniently coincide with applications for disclosure or section 7's). The affidavits I have received are nothing short of manure, I record all conversations, save all email and keep a daily diary. Too which my lawyer stated that I probably would be in serious trouble if I hadn't. No one to date has been an advocate for my daughter , except herself until now. The new agreement between the lawyers is to force her to go (she's 3 now, very verbal and has refused since Xmas), play therapy, and counseling ( not for her but myself and for the X)- my lawyer wants me to comply with everything or I could loose custody. These people only carry on their abuse through the courts and the lawyers. The main focus isn't the children - it's winning. To them winning is alienating the child and not parting with any of their money. It's a shame that educated people in the Judaical system can't see this. |
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