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September 28, 2008, 2:00 pm PDT
I AM GLAD YOU FEEL THE WAY THAT YOU DO
Quote From: pokie5are they cazy! dropping a 9 yr. old and dropping him opff alone in any towm! i belive in teaching a child at a young age, but, give me a break! do it little by little. like maybe drop him a block off around your block, and as age and time goes on do more. there is so many perverts out there, it's not even funny, and they look like you and me! i have taught my 10 yr. old about street smarts, but i'm, not going to drop him in town and tell him to find is way home. any thing could happen i don't smother him, but i know where he is at , at all time. as time and age goes by, then i will allow more freedom, but come on lady----your asking for trouble!
i have a freind that smothers her daughter, and i think that she is cazy for doing it. i belive that she is just asking for problems, as she gets older, well for me--- as a mom, give kids independents, but, be wise about it. according what you know there ready for. I FEEL LIKE YOU DO ABOUT THIS WOMAN DROPPING HER SON OFF IN NEW YORK
CITY....CRAZY!! I WAS TOLD BY SOMEONE ELSE ON THIS MESSAGEBOARD THAT
I DID NOT HAVE THE RIGHT TO FEEL THE WAY THAT I DO.
I SAID I FELT LIKE IT WAS A FORM OF
"CHILD ABUSE" AND THE MOTHER IN THIS CASE SHOULD BE
SENT FOR
COUNSELING TO
LEARN HOW TO BE A "RESPONSIBLE" PARENT.
I RESPONDED TO HER BY SAYING THAT NO MOTHER WOULD SEND THEIR CHILD IN THE WILD TO HAVE
WOLVES PREY ON THEM... SO WHY WOULD A MOTHER SEND HER SON INTO NEW YORK CITY TO HAVE PREDATORS
PREY ON HIM?????
THIS IS A DANGEROUS WORLD WE LIVE IN
AND WE NEED TO TEACH OUR CHILDREN "INDEPENDENCE" THE RIGHT WAY.
BEING A PARENT MEANS YOU MUST "PROTECT" THEM
FROM HARM.
"CHILDREN LEARN WHAT THEY LIVE"...DOWN THE
LINE WHEN THE 9
YEAR OLD BECOMES
A FATHER HE MIGHT THINK WHAT HIS MOTHER DID TO HIM WAS THE RIGHT
THING TO DO SO HE WILL DO THE SAME
TO HIS KIDS....
WHICH WE KNOW IS THE WRONG THING
TO DO.
MAY OTHER MOTHERS HAVE THE SENSE TO GO TO A FAMILY MEMBER OR A FRIEND FOR ADVICE, OR READ A BOOK ABOUT CHILD CARE, OR JUST WATCH THE DR. PHIL SHOW
TO LEARN HOW TO TEACH THEIR CHILD HOW TO BE "INDEPENDENT".
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