Quote From: nightrider_57
I was just told by the dependency court - the nose tweek was not dv. Now I get to go back and correct that injustace.
When I was at cps. The x's case worker grabbed the documents in my hand and started pulling on them in front of everybody.
Isn't that DV?
Judge Paul, Los Angeles superior court.
Referred to it as "the infamous nose tweeking case.
he also.... said, I have no record. The other city could make a parking ticket out of it if they wanted
I have all documentation proving all that I say.
So I am not interested in your man hating point of view.
My children and I have a serious problem.
And I told my story like many others have.
Do you judge all of them....
It might be wiser since your oppinions are not fact. To show some curtisy and understanding for other people ploblems.
If if you can not find anything positive to say or something you know to be true. Stay out of it.
It adds to the grief!
Not to be sracastic towards you but the last time I looked, the depndency court was not an expert in domestic violence. The duluth model of power and control describes domestic violence and you tweaking your wife's nose is an attempt to control or subdue her. I also believe that your dependency court judge needs to get some real quick training in what is and is not domestic violence. While in the eyes of the law your nose tweak does not fit the criteria for dv, it most certainly does fit in the psychological viewpoint of dv. Do a search for Duluth Power and Control Wheel. Your nose tweak is classified as intimidation (making her afraid using looks, actions, gestures) and can also be classified under minimizing, denying, blaming (making light of the abuse or not taking her concerns about it seriously).
So to wherever in the world your dependency court judge is, I hope he catches wind of this program and reads this forum (doubt that will happen though). This is simply because you did commit domestic violence and I would have to wonder if your ex-wife would have more stories similar to this one to share with us.
