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October 3, 2008, 9:10 pm PDT
This is not PAS/PA it is abuse and your child is..........
Quote From: hurtmom5I am completely aware of pas, since it is happening to me - alienation is probally more common against fathers, however it happens to mothers as well - my ex-husband is very controlling and warned that he would "get" our child for himself and he has succeeded - i have never badmouthed the father to my child, however he continually badmouthed me until our child was caught in the middle and was forced to be on his side - we were once extremely close, however my child now bad mouths me as well, makes false accusations against me and will not have anything to do with any family/friends associated with me -to destroy a close, loving relationship between a mother and child by a jealous exhusband is definitely abuse - Dr. Warshak's book "Divorce Poison" has helped me understand how and why it happens plus possible remedies - i have lost my child without doing anything wrong and feel helpless to stop it Bonding Traunatically with her father who is abusive. This is also referred to as the Stockholm Syndrome. Please research this. PAS/PA has been proven over and over to have been used by men who have had allegations of abuse placed against them in order to focus on the accuser rather than on himself. Look at www.stopfamilyviolence.org for their petition with the IACHR for more information on this.
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