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October 3, 2008, 3:04 pm PDT
Dads that pled to be the victims
Quote From: rred64 My soon to be ex has very little contact with his children, he doesn't call them, txt them, or see them. Men want to complain but I have seen this with a lot of my friends. I think there are a lot more dads out there that aren't stepping up than women who are exhibiting this behavior. I would love it if my ex would have something to do with his kids. I am the one who has to tell them there dad loves them. This is exactly what my ex husband has done. He pleds he wants to spend time with the kids and won't budge on his visitation schedule. We never know if he is going to show up or not each week. So I finally had to get an attorney to modify the schedule. He has only seen the kids since January maybe 10 times. He has bounced around since we got divorced from his brothers, to his parents, to living with a room mate and then after 3 weeks of dating someone he moved in with her.........the kids have had it with him. The sad thing is we were married 15 years and he really was a good dad. Or at least a great team player. Could never be the coach though. Now he has his self in a situation where the new girlfriend has taken over and he is the puppet. She is in complete competition with the kids. He still wants to blame me for not being able to visit his kids. He doesn't call hardly at all and when he does it is when his girlfriend isn't around. She has complete control of his money, email,cell phone, text messages. It is ridiculas. He claims I'm standing in the way but the truth is he isn't man enough to do what REAL DADS DO. Be a dad. Nobody cares he has a relationship, but you can't put someone in front of your children. It's a sad story and only one that he can fix if he wants to save his relationship with his kids.
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