Replies to '12/26 "Brainwashed by My Parents"'

Unsure which mother you are referring to.  If by chance, you might be concerned about my posting (at approx. 8:30 MST).   Currently, I have sole custody of my daughter whom is 2, my older 3 children with my ex-husband are with him, per a court order established in Juvenile court through a D/N case.  It has only been recently that I have been able to have unsupervised visits with my older children (1 1/2 hours each Sat. morning and a rotating schedule on Thursday for individual visits).  BCDSS as well as the police informed me that even though my ex was convicted of sexual assault on an adult and placed on the Sex offender list, that he passed a lie detector test and he only has a history with adult sex offenses.  I have to live every single day knowing that my children are with someone whom is capable of such crimes and that trying to protect my children by using a voice of concern will get the insane system completely removing my rights.  I have sent letters to everyone that I could think of that would be able to have the case examined from beginning to end, however, at this point no one has stepped forward.  In order to regain unsupervised visits, my children and I have had to endure one more professional performing an interactional to state that I am a safe parent around the children.  The court system also does not like moving children from one home to another, so the reality of having them come back is very grim.  It kills me forcing my daughter who is the typical one (not special needs) after a visit, she states that is isn't fair and questions why nobody believes her.  It is a very profitable syndrome for the court system and all the professionals tied into it.  There are many therapists, whom very rarely take insurance, so in order to comply with orders in which to regain your children it bankrupts many families.  For instance, family evaluators, family and individual therapists, parent/child interactional professionals, parent child coordinators, attorneys just to name a few in which to just regain unsupervised visits (roughly $3,000/month) just to get the system to look at you and possibly decide that you should be in your childrens lives.  Be grateful for your families and hug them everyday....I wish I still could....if not for vindictiveness.

"I really want to know if this case can be revisited by proper authorities"......

 

....I would bet the farm that "the Proper Authorities" were the ones that determined where to put the children in the FIRST place, mark my words.

 

"...I was left with such a horrible feeling that those girls may be living in this abuse".....

 

...Welcome to the moms world, where politics rule, evidence disappears, character is assassinated and children are placed with their abuser....especially if the accusation is true. Unfortunately for those moms who aren't aware that any accusation will be viewed as PAS, if they even know what it is....you will most likely endanger the very children you're trying to protect. THAT is the truth about our "system".