Quote From: gkitty26How about this has anyone ever had your sister poisoning their mother against them.I recently decided to get closer to god i prayed that things would get better between my mother and I.I felt that on mother's day that my prayer was starting to come true.I feel as though my sister who's always been my mom's favorite wont have it.I think she's been very selfish and she has the nerve to say that I am please.She likes to do what every it takes to get my mother and I to start fighting.Like shell bring up things from the past or the fact that Im not like my mom.My mother and I have never gotten along one reason being that she judges and criticizes me to much.I just dont feel as like I cant talk to her she isnt supportive of me at all.my sister has always thought she was better than I am and to this day it hasnt changed.I was without a job last year and no place to stay and she turned meand my daughter away.Shes like well thats what you get for getting yourself in those problems.Im her ONLY sister she treats her co-workers better than she treats me.She stated that my daughter is a burden to her and that she doesnt need me.So I will continue to pray for her.
Has anyone gone thru something like this and what advice do you have.
I was married for almost 18 years to an mentally and physcially abusive ex who "brainwashed" my beautiful daughters. I don't like the term brainwashed , but i was a good mother and i can't understand why this was allowed to happen. Family court does not recognize the term PAS and if you mention it they look at you like you are an alien. Why? because it is not an diagnosis?
this is a living death, when your children want nothing to do with you and you have not closure. Luckly i have found sites on the internet where i have found other abused women in the same situation. Through counceling to dealing with the loss and pain of losing my children, i woke up and realized i am a victim ( i don't like the term "victim" but i am a victim of domestic violence.
How does one cope? My soul is lost, part of me is gone.......the abuser is getting away with this. Something must be done.