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October 4, 2008, 8:14 pm PDT
10/03 "Brainwashed by My Parents"
Quote From: amyluvscatzMy life is living proof. As so many of the other stories I've read on here, my ex husband is an alienator. It does not just happen to men, I wish that would have been stressed more on the show. Fathers are getting custody more and more often these days, and many non custodial moms are affected by PAS. My ex is so angry that I left him that he will do whatever it takes to keep me from seeing the children I once had a loving relationship with, even if it means hurting them. In 2006, he with held them from me 16 days. In 2007, he with held them 58 days. And so far in 2008 it has been more than 90 days of court ordered visitation denied. My children are 10, 7 and 6 years old. The courts do nothing, despite my numerous filings of contempt. I have been accused of all sorts of abuse and neglect, all because of his hatered for me and need to see me suffer, using the only weapon he can--our children. I can see why the man on the show ran off with his two kids. I'm glad it worked out for him. I filed for custody and our hearing is in November. My ex makes more money than me and seems to have the corrupt court system on his side. I only hope they can see what is really happening before my kids' lives are permanently damaged.
- Hi, I was drawn to your story because I am also living half of my life in a nightmare....the similar thing happened to me with my son....it happened when he was 2 and now he is 10...some men use this PAS to claim they are a good fathers and love their child/ren...but ofcourse evil fathers like that only use the child/ren for revengeful purposes....which seems to happen alot these days...especially if they have money and you don't at that point in time....kids are always the victims and one day they will grow up to see the truth...I know how hard it is for you but you keep your head up and be strong cause your ex is a typically revengeful devil in disguise....don't let him see you in pain in any way, shape or form...I hope things will work out for you in Nov. Take care of yourself so you can have energy to share with your children when you see them. My prayers go out to you and all the children.
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