Quote From: juballlI don't know if your therapist has told you, but a compulsive liar has less chance of changing than a drug addict. I hope he is in the minority, but I doubt he will ever change.
Yes, you are asking way too much to have you go with him to talk to his boss. I am shocked your therapist would suggest that. That would jeopardize his job, as I would think his boss would not want to get involved in his employees personal life.
I would think it very difficult to build trust to someone that can't tell the truth to start with. Good luck
That is the problem....I just don't know if he has or ever will change. Our therapist said to maybe have me go in with him to talk to his boss just about the job in general...and the future with his program (he is getting liscenced in HVAC). I wouldn't have brought up the trust/dishonesty issues, as we all realize that could jeopardize his reputation as well as his job. I was just hoping to see for myself (without probing about it) if his boss mentioned knowing about the lying situation. My husband told me he went and came forward about it to his boss...but I think it was all another lie to try to make me happy.
I just know I need something to believe in him again...otherwise I can't keep investing so much into something that I am getting little to nothing genuine from. Do you have any other ideas that could possibly help with regaining this trust?
