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December 30, 2005, 5:03 pm PST
so much in common
Quote From: newmommy21I just had first baby a boy in april 2005 when I was 22 and at first he didn't feel like he was my son. I mean I knew he was my son but I thought I was supposed to have this instant love for him and I didn't. I thought maybe something was wrong with me. Maybe I just don't have any mottherly instincts or maybe I was just weird. None of my other friends had any kids so there was no one I could talk to about my feelings. But as time has gone on I love him more and more. Now it seems like I don't know what I would do without him. I can't imagine him being here. I think love happens over time. I loved him when he was first born but I know now what it really is like to be a mother and to have that unconditional love for your child. Recently a friend of mine had a baby and she felt the same way as I did. It was great to help her through it and great for me to know that I wasn't alone in my feelings. Keep up the good work moms! We have to stick together to raise our beautiful children! I am also a new mommy at the age of 22 my son was born july 2005 and in the beggining i had motherly instincts but I had to adjust to being someones mother i didnt feel like it at all times so yes i had to also adjust to that but he is great just seeing him going through the different stages of learning is beautiful so yes keep up the good work mothers we do have to stick together because no one understand us better than we do.
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