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July 27, 2009, 1:29 pm PDT
response; Advice
Quote From: batoulm 18 ... ive never felt that .. ive never felt like having a teen spirit, the story started when i continued high school in a puplic school and their all what girls worry about is ''sex '' and getting married ! ive never had the chance to express my self free. all what ive done was trying to adapt to my friends .. ive never show what it is really behind me .. now n college it is the same over here ... nd what make it harder for me is having no guys in college too because of my major .. anyway ... the main problem i have is the feeling of lonliness and not having the chance to express myself ..what about sex ? it is really that wrong not to have sex at my age ? what should i do ? I just to be the same. When I was a lot younger, in 4th grade, I switched schools. I never had any spirit until I got to 7th grade and realized that I wanted to be a singer, and I didn't care what people thought of me any longer as long as I wasn't being illegal or violating my religion I acted as myself. A lot of people put me down for that. I was known by a stage name online and classmates teased me for being creative too. It was sort of depressing but I stayed true to myself.
You don't need a particular "chance" to express yourself, just be yourself in every single moment of the idea regardless of what people think about you, and someone real will notice you and be a friend. With sex, you're 18, which means you're obviously old enough, however if you only want to do this because everyone else is doing it, I would wait until I actually fall in love with someone in particular for real. It's not wrong at all, whether you have sex at your age or not... some religious issues come in the way sometimes, but in a legal view, there's nothing wrong with that at your age as long as force isn't used.
As for what you should do, this is where being yourself comes into play. No one can answer that question but yourself.
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