Quote From: sputnik56I am certainly not offended by your offer. Some of the dreams are so horrible I dread going to sleep. Those NEED to stop. Others are comforting, sweet memories of both Heather & Mom. Mom's been gone for 3 years, but another part of the bad dreams is the death of my brother-in-law just months before Heathers. He had AIDS & that is an awful death. Anyway, you think these dream can be stopped? Please tell me how.
Your family is from the Tuscaloosa area, I am about 1.5 hours from Tuscaloosa. Was the cousin you lost in AL? I'm really sorry to hear about that. There seems to be too much death & sadness in the world today.
ROLL TIDE!!!
Denise
First I have to say I am not a doctor just a person who has had a lot of therapy and a lot of bad things happen in her life. I am not an expert however I am an expert on me so if anything I say can help you then Maybe our heavenly father is working threw me to help you. Iam a christian and would like nothing more than to give you my loving support and what has helped me out.
First anything to do which scares you so much frightens you is not of our lord. It is the evil one. GOD our heavenly father is all about love. Giving and sending out. Point blank end of the conversation there girl....
I am so sorry that bad things have happened in your life...I also lost a parent last year. My Grandma who meant THE WORLD to me had a major stroke down there and lived in a vegatative state for 3 years outside Tuscaloosa in a Nursing Home. The lights were on but nobody was home with a feeding tube. She was the richest woman I ever knew. Sadly when she died she had 73 dollars in her bank account. The riches I am talking about are the ones that live on within us that echo way past the person...Those riches the lessons the goodness of me are all her.
She lives in me that is why she was so rich her great spirit her strong dynamic...yes i love my Grandma....I celbrated her yesterday as a matter a factmade some collard greens ribs and cornbread....
So what does this have to do with dreams? Your dreams sometimes are unfinshed business. Instead of running from them instead of being afraid to close your eyes look at them like your a reporter. Maybe there is something you need to remmber. maybe a message. Maybe a fact your brain needs to put together a-z before it can finally rest. This brain of ours is so big and dynamic.
Certainly Nothing to be afraid of though unless your a serial killer....Are you one of those people?
I dont think you are...Your too kind for that....I miss that State...I miss my cousins...I miss that darn river where I caught a 25 pound turtle....I miss that slow southern way...I swore when i couldnt wake her up I would never step foot in that state again..maybe I should come on back down yonder and sit a spell. xooxo