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October 20, 2005, 10:53 am PDT
Her issues now
Quote From: smitty0099I hear what you are saying, I really do but I do not feel that I should be held responsible for his affair.
You were a part of it. So, how can you NOT be partially responsible?
I have no problem with her being in the picture as long as she knows her place.
OMG! Now I think we are being played by YOU. You DIDN'T just say that, did you? As long as SHE knows HER place?? Sweety, HER place was with her family, still is.
The only thing you are right about, is that their problems are THEIRS. But, how do you think you are helping the situation by being involved? It's THEIR problems, THEIR marriage, THEIR business. I hate to say this, but you seem incredibly naive, or are just playing us here. I hope you are just playing games with us here, because if you ARE this naive, we'll eventually be seeing you on the 'cheated on' board. You are so upset about my reactions. What is your situation that you don't get what I am saying? She should know her place. If you don't care of what you have you run the risk of losing it. Marriage is a two way street. He tried for years trying to deal with her mood swings and her selfishness. Then he decided he wanted a life, too. Why should I feel badly for her? She should know her place. He is going to be with me. She will, very soon, be the exwife. She had her chance to have her say...she blew it. As far as his kids are concerned...time will heal them and they will eventually accept me or NOT. I am very good for their father so unless the shrew wife continues to try and brainwash them into thinking she is the perpetual victim we have a good chance at a relationship, the kids, that is. I have no question about my relationship with HIM.
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