Replies to '01/20 Dating Double Standards'

Hi, I thought a few things you said were right on, especially about having real fun together

   I hear you especially about people not seeming to want real relationships nowadays. If you were to see me you'd assume (what you have just written about)a thin beautiful woman not  even considering at looking at a guy like you( as you describe yourself). I am just like you-old fashioned values. You describe what I was looking for in dating when I was dating. I rarely even get asked out as it is. I've been told by more than a few (uncouragous sweet guys) that they'd be  afraid I would reject them! No wonder I rarely have a date! even though my butt gets a lot of attention I don't personally!
    I find that offensive-that so many men assume- so much about me because I happen to look good because I do take care of myself, since I certainly am not judging them by their looks! Very few men actually bother to talk to me at all. Most conversations start because I talk to men first.,In fact I usually feel more comfortable talking with men like you(who know what they want).
 That's why it is of utmost importance for everyone to remain optimistic no matter how they look (it how you feel that makes you who you are)  and please don't assume or judge someone by looks only since you could be missing out if you do. I look great for my age because I take loving care of myself and yet I live below the poverty level in Canada. Proof that you just cannot judge a person on first glance.
 In my books, integrity and values count, not the bar scene or with people with sex only agendas. I love a good conversation.I don't fit any preconceived mold now or when I was young.