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October 27, 2008, 3:44 pm PDT
thanks
Quote From: PatykayksHe is shutting you out. For a man to turn to ANYONE OR ANYTHING but his wife is wrong! I would highly suggest a counselor that specializes in online and/or sex addictions. As I mentoned in my previous post, you are living with a roomate. You have to look at your vows. Will he go to church with you?
I would try whatever I can to get him back to reality. The two of you are worth it. Your marriage is worth it.
If this is going on at home,what is he doing at work? Really play detective and see what you are dealing with. Any strange charges on credit cards, porn, etc. You have to see what kind of beast you are fighting.
My prayers are with you. Thanks for the advice and support. There have been no stranged charges on the credit card nor withdrawals from the bank. Both our paychecks are direct deposit--so the finances are fine. Work hasn't been affected--no problems or issues. No evidence of porn.
It just seems to be an escape from the everyday for him. He says he feels successful in the game because he is producing articles of his own design that people are "buying". He has also become very involved in a veterans project in the game which has helped him deal with the loss of a family member in Iraq. At first I thought this was a good thing because it seemed to help relieve the stress from work and the grief in his heart.
Since my original post he doesn't seem to be spending as much time in the game. He is going to bed earlier and spending more time away from the computer and more time doing other things.
Again, thank you for the advice and support, we will get past this bump in the road as we always have, this one will just take a little more work.
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