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November 3, 2008, 10:26 pm PST
A half black girls view
Quote From: emamii19I am a 19 female, italion, and light skinned.
Ever since i was 11 i have an effatuation with men that have a skin tone thats darker than mine. I remember being young, hanging out with freiends and while they were on the n'sync band wagon (which all members are white), i was fixed on Boys to Men ( who are an all black group). Well threw the years lots have people have made jokes about how i look at blck guys and they have told me it is just a phase, that i will get over it. Well in my mind when i look at a "white boy" per say I dont find one thing about him that is attractive. Not even his personality. But when i look at a guy "from a different backround i find them very attractive (not just in looks). See the problem here is i live at home with my Italion family, My mom, dad and granmother and although im very grateful to have a home to live in and a family they do not except the fact that i like guys from other backrounds.....
........ Can anyone give me advice as to how i should proceded ......,
p.s. it would be really appreciated I sorta know what your goin threw im a dark girl that likes white men Ive never been attracted 2 dark men when everyone else was in 2 BoysIIMen i was into Nirvana. Black men ask me out all the time and ive always said no ,then they would call me a racist cuz im half white. I honestly think that the reason some of us are more interested in people outside our race is we have a sub-consious need to deepen the gene pool. Its a scientific fact if you marry ouside of your race the children have less of a chance of genetic disorders...ne way... I would ask them why its such a huge problem maybe its just fear of the unknown. Tell them that you love them and respect there opinion but ur growing up and you know how you feel not them. Ask them what would they have done if they were forced to be with someone they wernt at all interested in. I would really sit down with your mom and really talk it out and if your family is dead set against it maybe it is time to move out. Im not telling you to get in fight with them familys very important however so is your happiness....have you started seeing ne1 maybe if they got to know him in small doses they might change there minds...Please keep me posted id like to know if i can help more...good luck
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