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October 29, 2008, 6:14 pm PDT
10/29 Gender Confused Children
Quote From: chelsea181990i dont think a 3 year old can actually determine what gender is, and so i dont think they can say i want to be a girl/boy. they r only 3 !! its like child progodies, they r pushed to much and so its like them saying oh sure i do want to do this but really it was the parents urging to say it, it wasnt in there heart but there parents.
and when they grow up transgender is like being gay, if a boy was a girl and he marries a girl when hes older well thats being gay same with being born a boy. it was adam and eve not adam and steve !!
and how can any one question god ?? god made a mistake....i dont think so, thats a lil harsh.
when ppl say a person is just born gay, ppl cant be born gay its the same when ppl say ppl r born smokers, u dont see a baby born with a ciggertte in his mouth do u ??
lik OMG !!
like the poor kids what they have to deal with in this world today, there is alot of peer presure !!
and so im saying it is sort of the parents fault because they arnt wreaing there kids straight.
I dont think you know what you are talking about. And until you do, you should keep your opinions to yourself. Have you ever met anyone who was transgender? Being transgender has nothing to do with being gay. My husband is a transexual (a female to male).. Today he is a happy, healthy, fully male productive citizen. I never knew him as a female but I do know the torment he went through as a child when he knew from the age of 5 he was in the wrong body,. Oh he tried for years to fit in and that just made him suicidal. He has spent over $100,000 for surgeries...why would anyone "choose" to pay that much money? And his parents did not push him to be a male, they wanted him to stay a female. This was his choice. God did not make a mistake; he does allow things to happen to make us stronger. It is just like if someone was born mentally retarded...if there was a surgery to fix this, would not just about any parent go through with this surgery. They would not say god made a mistake, but they were just fixing what they were dealt with. I disagree with you, people can be born gay, straight, blind, deaf, transgender, mentally retarded: it is a part of their genetics they were given at birth. Transgender is not a psych disorder: you cannot fix a psych disorder with surgery. My husband was depressed for 20 years; when he finished all the surgeries he has had no regrets and is happy. Your comment about adam/eve and adam/steve: who do you want transgender people to be with. If they transition and physically look like a male, do you want them to be with a male just because they were born female? You would judge them on the outside as being a gay couple. Do you not think everyone needs the chance to be loved? I am glad this topic is being talked about; but I hope people will actually do research and know the facts before they just start spouting off at the mouth about topics they do not know about. We are suppose to love everyone, not be judges ourselves.
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