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October 25, 2005, 12:51 pm PDT
 Quote From: lcnekw Hi. I too started writing my problems on here and it has changed my life, not only that I sought help for my problems but just talking and not being judged. People are truly caring about others. Ha this world is worth living in. I read your story and I was in a similar situation a few years ago. My ex would frequently break up with me and expect to still live in the same house. During this time he would treat me worse than normal and act like it was me that was causing both of us such pain. I know how bad it hurts to be dismissed by the person you love. Let me tell you from experience that there is someone out there that will love you just as much as you love them, call it soulmate, whatever it is there is someone out there, maybe this new guy is the one for you. God blessed me and introduced me to the most wonderful man in the world. He is so loving and I know would never do anything to hurt me. I know that one day you will feel this same feeling (if you aren't already), and it is sooooo worth all the hell you went through with your ex jerk!!!! That is truly what people are that intentionally cause pain to others. Trust me it does get better cause it can't get worse eh? Anyways, I am always checking these message boards, call it no life or call it wanting to help others, I enjoy talking to people. So take care and oh yeah is that your kitten? It is so adorable. I just adopted an abandoned kitten from the humane society, aren't they the best. It sounds stupid but pets are the best things to vent to when you are upset they know it and they will try whatever they can to make you feel better. My cat bites my arms when I am crying and the harder I cry the harder she bites. They truly know how we are feeling anyways good luck and hope to talk to you soon.
Actually, I was responding to someone else's e-mail there. My first message on these boards was entitled "the old chiche" about my relationship with the man I've always been looking for that is an alcoholic. So that's my story in a teeny tiny nutshell. (Believe me-there's WAY more to say)
The kitten looks the way I would imagine one of my cats did when she was a kitten. I rescued an orange tabby in the dead of winter last year, with every intention of finding her a home, but when she plunked herself down on my couch and went right to sleep-I knew I had to keep her. This brings the kitty-count up to four! Oy!! They really are my life-I've always had cats and I don't know what I would do without them. Your kitty sounds like mine-except he bites me when we are cuddling and he wants more attention. I had a siamese for 19 years who would lick my tears when I cried and yell at me when I yelled at my mother-she even got into the routine I was in during my early teens when my bedtime was 9:00. She would come into the living room EXACTLY at 9:00 and start yowling at anyone who dared to still be awake. She was the greatest. I lost her to feline uterine cancer in 1999 and it still tears me apart. She is with me always....
Thanks for the message-even though you thought I was telling another story : )
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