Replies to 'Cheated On'

He obviously doesn't want you going to his work for a reason: because he doesn't want to get caught.  Wait for a night that he is "working" late and bring him dinner.  Don't go alone; bring a friend who you can trust.  This way if you find what you think you are going to, you won't have to deal with the situation alone.

 

Next time someone calls and hangs up, try *69 on your phone.  As long as it's not an unlisted number, this will provide you with the last number that called.  You can then do a reverse search on 411.com to find out who it belongs to.

 

There is no reason for you to not have the home computer password.  As spouses, there should be nothing hidden from one another.  I can understand the work one because that has customer confidential information involved.

 

I wish you luck.

A friend gave me a # to a psychic. She has used her before. So, out of curiosity, I called the lady, she responded. Without me giving any info she immediately pointed that I was depressed, she also described past life experiences such as she said there were two  fatalities in your life. One was recent and one was years ago. Then she said she got a strong since from a female with blonde hair, and a sence from a male figure who I was close too. That my childhood was not calm, there were many family arguments and dishonesty.  I was blown away. She also descirbed my marriage. She said you are not happy and that I am married to a mean and selfish man. So, I asked her if he had cheated on me or if he is, she said he had, a few months  ago with someone who has long brown hair, brown eyes, weighing around 110 pounds. As of now he is not. HIs affair was not work rlated, but w/ someone he knows through work. What got my attention was the fact that a few months ago when my hus. and I were out dancing, he ran into someone he knew from a hospital he did work for. They spent a long time conversing and she fits the description to the tee. The psychic said her name begins with an L. When the time is right I will ask him again what her name is.  What she could describe fit his profile to a tee.  She also said that he has been and will be unfaithful again. That she senses I will be leaving him in the next 6 months. That there is a better and respectful romance that will first be friends and blossom into a love. SHe aid that the reason I haven't left is due to financial restraints. That is accurate. The most important thing I got out of talking with her was what I suspected all along. He had cheated on me. So, as she said I I know is that I need to get a job, save and strategically plan to leave him.  I am looking for employment, once I have enough money saved, I have it planned in my mind to leave him while he is at work one day. so that when he comes home it will be a slap in the face for him.

I know exactly what you are feeling.  I too suspected my husband was cheating.  I can tell you if you truly think he is then you are probably right.  How to catch him is another issue.  If your husband is like mine he will deny it.  Mine continued to deny it even after I caught him.  Still, if you want evidence before accusing him, check cell phone bills, call a friend to follow him, there are programs you can buy to put on his computer to log keystrokes.  gps devices you can put on the car- so you know where he is.  If all this fails, waiting it out will probably work because men are idiots and usually get themselves caught sooner or later anyway.  Hope this helps,  there are many websites outthere for people who feel there mate are cheating but don't have proof.  just google different words (like infedility, cheating husband) ect.   Hope peace comes your way soon

iF YOUR HUSBAND IS SHOWING SIGNS OF INFIDELITY, THEN THERE PROBABLY IS SOMETHING GOING ON, GO BY WHAT YOUR GUT INSTINCTS TELL YOU BECAUSE USUALLY THEY ARE RIGHT .  HONEY DON'T BOTHER TRYING TO GET HIM TO ADMIT TO  ANYTHING BECAUSE HE WON'T . HE WILL ALWAYS  DENY IT, TAKE IT FROM ME, BACK OFF AND LET HIM HANG HIMSELF BECAUSE EVENTUALLY HE WILL. WE LIVE IN A SMALL WORLD AND EVENTUALLY IT ALL COMES FULL CIRCLE. DON'T SAY ANYTHING ABOUT WHAT YOU THINK IS GOING ON, BECOME YOUR OWN INVESTIGATOR IF YOU HAVE TO.BE ON GUARD IF YOU HAVE TO.  MAYBE ONE DAY GRAB A FRIEND OR SOMEONE CLOSE AND HAVE THEM DRIVE, MAKE A SURPRISE VISIT TO HIS JOB, DON'T TELL HIM YOU ARE COMING, JUST SHOW UP!!!! AS FAR AS THE COMPUTER AT HOME THERE ARE PROGRAMS YOU CAN PURCHASE AND DOWNLOAD INTO YOUR COMPUTER WHICH WILL TAKE A SNAP SHOT OF EVERY EMAIL, IM, WEB SITE VISITED ETC.. HE WILL NEVER KNOW.  THE MORE YOU SAY TO HIM, THE MORE HE WILL COVER HIS TRACKS, THEY DO IT ALL SO WELL. YOU CAN ALSO LOOK AT THE CELL PHONE BILLS, WATCH THE CREDIT CARD STATEMENT, BANK STATEMENTS AND TIME HE CAN NOT ACCOUNT FOR . I KNOW YOU MAY FEEL LIKE THIS IS SNOOPING BUT , YOU WOULDN'T BE SNOOPING IF HE DID NOT HAVE ANYTHING TO HIDE. ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER . SOMETIMES WE MAKE IT TO EASY FOR THEM . I HOPE IT ALL WORKS OUT FOR YOU, BECAUSE NO ONE DESEARVES THAT KIND OF TREATMENT .