Quote From: flitrfliesThank you for your reply and great Christmas ideas. I suppose I am the one who is centering on the commercialization of Christmas. Perhaps I should teach my children what I want to learn about the true meaning of Christmas. It's a lifestyle change, and it's very hard dealing with the family's emotions.
Beer, you are absolutely right. However, my husband doesn't see it that way. It's his 'hobby' and he won't give it up. If I run out of money before the next cheque comes, then I should have managed my money better even if I had extra expenses that month. That's just the way it is.
I keep reminding myself that I should be grateful for all that he has giving me and that the children and I are together. I guess I can say at least we have KD to eat! I think we all wish things were better in our lives.
You stated that you live in Canada and that your ex does't pay support for his kids. Well, if he is working, the government will garnish his salary so that the child support will get to you. Speak to a lawyer and check this out. There shouldn't be any excuse not to garnish his paycheck, believe me.
Please let me know which area you live in. I would love to try to help in any little way possible with your needs for the children. As for the beer, I guess that shouldn't be a big deal with you common law hubby. We all need a little recreation, unfortunately, even if it cuts into the other neccessities.
Please write me if you wish, s_cumbo@yahoo.ca
