Replies to '11/20 Spouses at War'

DONNA IS REAPING THE AFFECTS OF A HUSBAND SHE HAS OPPRESSED FOR SO MANY YEARS.  ORANGE COUNTY WIFES...ARE POOR ROLE-MODELS.  DONNA IS NOT ACTING LIKE A "MOTHER".  SHE ONLY CONCERNS HERSELF WITH "HERSELF", AND NEITHER ARE HER CHILDREN OR HER HUSBAND IMPORTANT.  IT IS VERY SAD THE WAY SHE IS ABUSING THESE TWINS.  YOU DON'T ADOPT KIDS, ONLY TO NEGLECT THEM LIKE THEIR BIOLOGICAL PARENTS DID.  PATHETIC.  STOP FOCUSING ON 'MONEY', YOUR CONTROLING BEHAVIOR.  YOU WILL LOSE EVERYTHING IN THE END.  IT IS COMPLETELY SHAMEFUL FOR THIS WOMAN TO NOT WORK OUTSIDE THE HOME, BUT ALSO NOT WORK 'INSIDE' THE HOME EITHER.  HIGH MAINTENANCE, MATERIALISTIC WOMEN ARE CLUELESS IN LIFE!!  STOP ACTING LIKE THE 'BITCH' YOU WERE TOLD YOU WERE.  TODAY IS A NEW DAY TO START OVER YOUR LIFE.  LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO WASTE IT...WITH 'THINGS' AND NOT FOCUS ON LOVED ONES.  YOUR KIDS NEED YOU.  LET THE 'NANNY' GO...YOU HAVE TO START MOTHERING AND BE A WIFE, AND NOT CHECK OUT EMOTIONALLY.  I HOPE SHE LISTENS TO HER HUSBAND AND KIDS NEEDS..AND ENDS HER SELFISH WAY.  ALSO, GET THAT GUN OUT OF YOUR HOME!!  THAT IS A RECIPE FOR DISASTER...AND CAN END IN TRAGIC CIRCUMSTANCES.  PLEASE CHANGE BEFORE IT'S TOO LATE..YOU HAVE CHILDREN TO PUT FIRST AND FOREMOST.  DONNA'S INTERNAL DIALOGUE NEEDS TO CHANGE.  THIS IS NOT THE HUSBANDS MAIN ISSUES, IT'S DONNA'S.  HIS ANGER IS COMING FROM BEING CONTROLLED AND NOT BEING HEARD OR APPRECIATED.  GOOD LUCK, I PRAY YOU GAIN THE KNOWLEDGE YOU BOTH NEED TO SUCCEED.  ANNE from MI