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December 11, 2008, 2:52 pm PST

12/11 Relationship Reality Check

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I Applaud Matthew for standing up for what's right, although he probably should have broken off the engagement when he found out that they were that different. Anyone who grew up in such a stable,conservative,loving, and prob christian home aught to know that you dont' marry people who believe differently and want differend things in life and marriage. That "Woman" is as crazy as they come. There are many good coservative women in this world that I wonder why he chose her. Leave that psyco woman Matthew. I sort of think that somewhere deep inside Dr. Phil, he might think she's crazy to. Dr. Phil I HOPE your not crossing over to the WORLDLY side with those crazy lefty libs at nbc. My advice to Mathew as a christian conservative is to leave her and find you a good woman with the same principals,beliefs as yourself. I know your mamma would be ok with it.

I agree with you 100%. Although I am Jewish, this has nothing to do with either being raised Christian or Jewish, it has more to do with a moral obigation to your spouse. First of all, this woman has bagage and I want to know what attracted him to her in the first place. This woman is from a broken home, has three kids from a previous relationship and has serious issues in her life. I am a divorced woman with one kid who wants that "cookie cutter life" and I cannot find that kind of man. I dont drink, party, I attend Synagogue and I raise my son with a good sense of family values. What the hell do men think when they get with women like this? There are so many good women who want a good man and all of the skanks get what good women are looking for. I am divorced because my ex husband is not what I expected him to be. There are conservative women out there with morals and values. Why do men pick the skanks to marry? Is is a feeling of wanting to rescue some poor women from herself? There are so many good women out there without the bagage, divorce these women and get someone who wants to commit to a relationship.

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December 11, 2008, 3:52 pm PST

what CHURCH do you go to

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I Applaud Matthew for standing up for what's right, although he probably should have broken off the engagement when he found out that they were that different. Anyone who grew up in such a stable,conservative,loving, and prob christian home aught to know that you dont' marry people who believe differently and want differend things in life and marriage. That "Woman" is as crazy as they come. There are many good coservative women in this world that I wonder why he chose her. Leave that psyco woman Matthew. I sort of think that somewhere deep inside Dr. Phil, he might think she's crazy to. Dr. Phil I HOPE your not crossing over to the WORLDLY side with those crazy lefty libs at nbc. My advice to Mathew as a christian conservative is to leave her and find you a good woman with the same principals,beliefs as yourself. I know your mamma would be ok with it.

Gee, being a Christian myself, I sorta wonder what bible your reading. You know RUTH was not a Christian, yet she ended up married to BOAZ. Glad one of my favorite bible stories wasn't left up to judgement of those whose view of marriage is LEAVE THEM if they are aren't perfect. ALSO it is NONE of the mothers business, and that is according to the bible I read.

IF you wanna be judgemental, okay, but leave Christian out of it.

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December 11, 2008, 4:33 pm PST

bad check

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I Applaud Matthew for standing up for what's right, although he probably should have broken off the engagement when he found out that they were that different. Anyone who grew up in such a stable,conservative,loving, and prob christian home aught to know that you dont' marry people who believe differently and want differend things in life and marriage. That "Woman" is as crazy as they come. There are many good coservative women in this world that I wonder why he chose her. Leave that psyco woman Matthew. I sort of think that somewhere deep inside Dr. Phil, he might think she's crazy to. Dr. Phil I HOPE your not crossing over to the WORLDLY side with those crazy lefty libs at nbc. My advice to Mathew as a christian conservative is to leave her and find you a good woman with the same principals,beliefs as yourself. I know your mamma would be ok with it.

Yes to prop 8, and now you want to say a hetero couple should be split up if one of the members goes to a "gay" bar once a month. And to say that gay is wrong, what is up with that?

You may never hear me say this again, but Dr. Phil got it right. Matthew suffers from an illness call homophobia. It is treatable. And the fact that his wife is not gay makes his phobia misplaced. Matthew needs help and understanding.

Now, back to the gay is wrong issue. The human population of the Earth can be reduced by 75% and would still be overpopulated. I don't propose that we have "elimination chambers," like on of the episodes of Star Trek, or that we get all agro and start wars to lower the population, think "300". I see homosexuals as a natural process in the control of population. So, in this day and age (as opposed to 5,000 biblical years ago) I believe that the heterosexual relationship is the damaging one.

Here is the big but, I do not hate people that think that they should get married in order to breed. That is a fine Idea. That is not the only reason to be married. People need to get over the fear and hatred of one another and see that this is a beautiful world with lots of color.

Meliss@

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what CHURCH do you go to

bad check