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I think maybe you need some birthcontrol. This poor girl is pregnant again and has only had her body to herself for 7mths! No wonder she doesn't feel sexy, she probably doesn't rememeber what it feels like to be sexy! She is probably starting to equate sex with being pregnant and doesn't want you to touch her. 

Get some good birthcontrol going once this one is born and let her get her body back and her sanity. She is going to have 2 kids to look after so close in age, and is going to be exhausted and if you arn't the type to pitch in and help with the kids then you may be out of the picture for having anything to resemble a normal sexual relationship for a long time. You guys are young, and an ideal suitation would of been for you to have fun and enjoy your time together for a few years before you brought children into the mixture. Its hard enough to be married but to have a baby that keeps you up at night, to consume your thoughts, it easy for the two of you to forget and push aside why you got married in the first place. Remind her that there was a relationship first between the two of you and it still needs to be nurtured, and that means beyond just sex. That means having fun together, touching without the act of sex, holding hands, cuddling. Tell her your sorry she is pregnant so soon again, and that this will be the end of being pregnant for a while so she can get backinto her tight jeans and feel like a sexy woman again. Good luck