Quote From: toshinshi What are you even doing back here?
Ok, I'm going to go back to one of the posts you had removed a while back. Just to make a point.
*Direct quote here.
" ya...actually God did chose who you want to spend your life with"
Ok, if God has this almighty power to conrol our fate, THEN HOW THE HELL DID WE CHOSE TO BE GAY?! If he controls all, and can make us love, then how can we do against him? Now your saying we have all the control again.
You have contradicted yourself like this many times in your posts.
To say the least, the only way for you to really understand that its not a choice is to truely know what it feels like to be gay, but you never will,you can't. And neither can I really.
As I have said in previous posts, I'm transsexual, not gay (yet). Ever since I was little, I prefered more boyish things and to have them as company. By middle school I wanted to be a man. Everything is different as a man, from how they use the batroom to how there treated in society. I crave it, to know what it feels like; not having breasts, arousal, climax, even riding a bike feels different. I know this isnt just some curiosity, its a mental flaw. I can't even watch a show or read a book if the main character is female. The female body is gross to me, I can't even really look in the mirror. In all my dreams and fantasies, I'm male; its haunting really. The fact that I cant even imagine myself with a man as a girl without wanting to cry.
You can never understand how that feels. It's painful; and it definitely not a choice. Why can't you see that?
I say these thing not to say that everything you believe and say is wrong (which is what your saying), but to try to make you see things from our prospective. Its only fair to yourself to be able to see both sides of the story before forming your own choice about it. I'm not saying your wrong because you believe in God or anything. I say that your wrong because you don't fully understand. Once you can understand how we see things and understand our different viewpoint, and you still feel this way about us, then theres nothing wrong with it. Your intitled to your own opinion. And once you can show that you understand all the viewpoints of the topic, people will respect that opinion.
