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angry
October 24, 2005, 6:17 pm PDT

Get real about what's real in life

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What is wrong people? First off, how can u claim to LOVE someone but yet, u call them all those nasty names? And secondly, how could someone or should I say WHY WOULD someone STAY with another person who disrespects them & calls them nasty, horrible names??? I know I sure as hell wouldnt be with someone who had that much disrespect for me, or ANY disrespect for that matter.......It doesnt make ANY sense! If these people SERIOUSLY want to stay together than I hope they get some SERIOUS counseling, and if they or one of them isnt serious about getting help, then they need to say buh bye & go their separate ways..............especially if they're children involved cause they dont need to hear their parents calling each other those names! That WILL have some kind of impact on them, kids learn what they see & hear and if they see & hear their parents disrespecting each other, then they'll most likely disrespect them, as well as each other & other people! Wow, the show hasnt even aired yet & I'm already ranting & raving, LOL! I cant wait to see it........ but seriously, I URGE these people to get some help! There is NO need for all the disrespect!
You replied to my message what you DON'T UNDERSTAND IS THAT WHEN YOU ARE IN A MARRIAGE LIKE THIS IT IS ABOUT CONTROL! It is the abusers intent to control everything. It is easy to make broad statements about what one should do , but until you live in one's shoe, keep your comments about what "YOU WOULD DO" AND YES MANY OF US GET COUNSELING TO HELP US UNDERSTAND THAT WE ARE STRONG AND HAVE THE ABILITY TO MAKE CHANGES IN OUR LIVES. THAT IS WHY I AM DIVORCED, MAYBE YOU MISSED THAT PART! You should have seen the look on my ex-husbands face when I had him served with divorce papers and left two weeks later with my head held high and with the knowledge that yes I can and will survive.  It is people like you that have no understanding of what destructive marriages can do to a persons self esteem.
 
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