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February 6, 2009, 12:06 pm PST

02/06 What's Wrong with Men?

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OMG, those guys up on that stage today were such jerks and so clueless it was incredible! They were truly ugly from the inside out!! 

 

But, here's the thing, ladies:  The question was asked why men don't want to get married and I knew the answer before it was said.....a long time ago the expression was: "why buy the cow when you get the milk free?" In other words, you girls are so anxious to have a man at any cost that you devalue yourself from the age of puberty on up by giving in to any guy who whispers a few bull crap words into your ears...so, why should he take on the responsibility of marriage and all that goes with it when he gets all the benefits without any of that?? You cook for him, do his laundry, sleep with him, put up with his crap every day..and he gets to leave whenever he wants to and never has to put up with YOU!

 

This is what you get.  What was on that stage was typical, not the exception!  

I already knew the answer, too. A cousin of mine, before he settled down and got married, had quite a few "girlfriends" willing to give him all the "free milk" he wanted. I wonder what they expected in return. If it was marriage, they were wasting their time. That old adage is still true. "Why buy the cow...?"
 

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February 6, 2009, 12:55 pm PST

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OMG, those guys up on that stage today were such jerks and so clueless it was incredible! They were truly ugly from the inside out!! 

 

But, here's the thing, ladies:  The question was asked why men don't want to get married and I knew the answer before it was said.....a long time ago the expression was: "why buy the cow when you get the milk free?" In other words, you girls are so anxious to have a man at any cost that you devalue yourself from the age of puberty on up by giving in to any guy who whispers a few bull crap words into your ears...so, why should he take on the responsibility of marriage and all that goes with it when he gets all the benefits without any of that?? You cook for him, do his laundry, sleep with him, put up with his crap every day..and he gets to leave whenever he wants to and never has to put up with YOU!

 

This is what you get.  What was on that stage was typical, not the exception!  

 I think we miss the point to a topic at times. Those guys clearly classified themselves as jerks and that is the end of the classification. What we all don't accept is that people are different and so are their attitude about most things. The biggest word that is used in relationships with two people is "compromise", yet we fail to do it with conviction. Too many of us walk into a relationship with the relationship of the past in "the front" of our minds. We cannot relive the past only try to live the future. So many times I watch this show and totally disagree with the general classifications thrown about. When women meet a man such as myself it scares the hell out of them because they are too accustomed with the everyday jerks from around the corner. I'm not perfect and no one is, we just strive for perfection and while doing so, we take others in consideration.

Let's stop the name calling and give each INDIVIDUAL a chance.
 
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February 6, 2009, 5:02 pm PST

02/06 What's Wrong with Men?

Quote From: cndrlla

OMG, those guys up on that stage today were such jerks and so clueless it was incredible! They were truly ugly from the inside out!! 

 

But, here's the thing, ladies:  The question was asked why men don't want to get married and I knew the answer before it was said.....a long time ago the expression was: "why buy the cow when you get the milk free?" In other words, you girls are so anxious to have a man at any cost that you devalue yourself from the age of puberty on up by giving in to any guy who whispers a few bull crap words into your ears...so, why should he take on the responsibility of marriage and all that goes with it when he gets all the benefits without any of that?? You cook for him, do his laundry, sleep with him, put up with his crap every day..and he gets to leave whenever he wants to and never has to put up with YOU!

 

This is what you get.  What was on that stage was typical, not the exception!  

OMG, those guys up on that stage today were such jerks and so clueless it was incredible! They were truly ugly from the inside out!!  ( I agree)

 

But doesnt it seem the least bit unfair that no hard working ,caring,decent men were brought on to defend themselves?

 

This is what you get.  What was on that stage was typical, not the exception! (I completely disagree)

 


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