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October 23, 2005, 4:34 pm PDT
10/26 More Sex With Kim Cattrall!
Quote From: branrw21 "I think sex is over rated. Yes, it's nice. When you first get married, you have it all the time and then it simmers down a little. That's life. "
It usually simmers because when couples have children, they stop being friends and lovers and start being moms and dads, like Dr. Phil says. Sex is like a garden, you have to keep maintaining it. So when you don't, the spark disappears. Even though the feelings are natural, the techniques are learned and need to be constantly challenged. People give up on this too easily and assume that this is just supposed to happen, when it's not. IMO, people who actually don't like sex are generally those who aren't comfortable in their sexuality.
just my 2 cents I agree with that. However, even people who don't have children still experience a decline in sexual activity after they have been married awhile. Let's face it, when you first get together with someone, you have sex three times a day...that's not the norm in a "normal" relationship. Once you feel more comfortable with someone, you slow it down to once a day. Some people actually experience a decline in sexual desire after having children also.
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