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April 23, 2009, 11:57 pm PDT
don't worry
Quote From: lilbit32I'm 32 yrs old and 25 weeks along with my 3rd child. I am not married. I am not all the way sure who the father is of my baby. But I am dealing with this. I have 2 boys at home. They are 12 & 10 years old. I love them both very much. I am very scared to have another child. But part of me is looking forward to having this little baby. I want to make sure my baby has a family like my boys did when they were little. it may be that you are worried about the extra workload of the new baby. maybe you are unsure if you wanted 3 children. i can understand your worries and fears. it doesn't make you a bad mom or anything. your other children will calm down a bit if you involve them alittle with the pregnancy or talk to them about having a new sibbling. children usually do fight for one parents affections or the other parentas affections. all you can do is try to talk to them about it or let the sibbbling rivalry take its course. try not to feel guilty. if you have sibblings you too had a few fights that probably left your parents wondering.
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