Quote From: nursewilliams1 Yes she is going to have caregiver role strain. Who wouldnt. There are grown kids who get it from taking care of one parent. And with all the kids she has yes house would be messey. No one can honestly say there house has always been spotless with more than two kids......She is a mom and having kids is not a bad thing it was her choice. She has to raise them, lose sleep, etc. It will not affect any of us in no way. As I say we dont live in the United states home of the free etc., We live in the land of the offended. Do you fuss over what our taxes are paying and have been for HIV AIDS patients in prison???? Leave her alone before she gets pushed over the edge. How are any of u gonna feel if she harms herself??? Look at the family that commited sucide a few weeks ago due to job loss, bankrupt, etc. Where is a show on them?? She is living and trying. And for taking them a way that is so freaking wrong. If the state there does they should be sued. Make rounds in other homes in that area then tell me hers is worse.Way back when they had that many kids all the time....Thats why that family commited sucide, instead of us listening , lending a helping hand , our time, our exper. we sit in our comfortable homes, and try to fix others lives.
After seeing his interview with her, I believe that she acknowledges that implanting the last 6 embryos was a bad decision but I honestly think, not only with her but with anybody, that if you are not able to financially or physically able to provide for your kids, then put them up for adoption. What I mean is, she already had 6 kids that she couldn't provide for then she wanted to just have 1, maybe 2 more? Come on now! She had to move in with momma and daddy, let grandma take care of the 6 she already has, pay no rent, pay nothing to help out with food or utilities, then gets a settlement check and doesn't at least offer to give her parents some of it to help out with their burden of having to take care of 7 more people. She sneaks out and has the last 6 implanted. Even if this pregnancy resulted in a single birth, that is STILL more than she can handle at this point. Now she is wanting everybody to feel sorry for her and give her donations. The only thing is if you give to help the babies, you are only enabling her as well. I really think that the state needs to take the little ones away from her. The state of California is already under enough stress with the economy and having to lay off government workers and now she is putting an even bigger burden on the taxpayers of California by getting food stamps and Lord knows what else. I also think that momma and daddy need to practice a little tough love and kick her butt out and stop taking care of the 6 she already had. There are women out there who go out day after day and bust their butt working sometimes more than 1 job just to make things work and she needs to do the same!!! Give those babies to families that can offer them a better life, one that can give their WHOLE attention and devotion to that one child. There is absolutely no way that at least 1 or more children is going to feel left out or ignored because of her choice to have a "big family." To me she comes across as a woman who wants it all but doesn't want to have to pay for any of it. She wants the "big" family but wants everybody else to help her out with it. She wants the taxpayers to pay her and the babies hospital bill, she doesn't want to work and at least try to help financially, she wants to "go to school" She should have done all that before she had all these kids or after they had grown up a bit. She wants to live with momma and daddy, let them and the state of California support her and her now 14 kids and wants to just sit at home, reap the benefits and not do a thing. She wants volunteers, she wants donations, she wanted 1.5M to go on Oprah. If she truly doesn't like all this attention then why on earth did she say she would go on Oprah for 1.5M?? Answer me that!! As for the person who said, "she has to raise them, lose sleep, etc." Uhhhh no. She isn't going to be the one losing sleep, It is going to be the volunteers who will be losing sleep because I bet you, she will be curled up in bed saying she has a headache or something. She wants the "big family" but doesn't want anything to do with helping to raise or support them!!
