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December 30, 2005, 11:42 am PST

More than she can take

Quote From: rissa140

I agree with u 100%!!! When I saw the preview of this story, I was absolutely DISGUSTED! This woman is soooo disgraceful for resenting her husband over something he has NO control over! She needs a SERIOUS reality check and I CAN NOT wait to see/hear dr. phil give her one, I hope he chews her out so bad cause she sure as hell deserves it! And I too, hope that this husband realizes how SICK his wife is and get the proper help & support he needs! My heart goes out to him!
I don't think anyone is getting her true message. What I hear her saying is that this is more than she can take. The camel back is already broken.  Have none of you been in a position that you don't know where to turn or what to do? At this point she can't even ask the questions she needs to get answers to. I don't think she is saying she does not WANT to do anything, she wishes she could. This is her second marriage. Should she mortgage her children's future for her second husband.  Luckily I will never be faced with this decision in that I do not know what the best answer is. I do see that it seems now she is not even trying. However this can be just the symptom of her desperation.  Giving up. There are degrees of love and I don't think she has the love of her husband that says "I give all". Without this type of trial, their marriage may have been just fine. But this type of trial can rock even the most solid of marriages.  Thrown her a rope to keep her from drowning, rather than your animosity.  
 


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