Quote From: milaminimeOkay, so here's a doozy for ya. I am 16 years old, Im an A/B student, I go to church youth group, so on and so forth. Well, my mom just got married about a year ago. My step dad has a son who is about a year older than me, he's a good guy, B/C student and is the one who introduced me to church youth group. well, here's the thing, he and I have been "seeing" each other behind our parents backs since about the day we met. I saw him and he took my breath away. He would stay the night at our house because his dad moved in with us and we would stay up all night, just talking. Soon i noticed I was falling for him, hard. And now, two years later, we are very much in love, but, our parents have no idea, well, maybe an idea, but they have never said a thing to us, and we've never ever made the fact that we love each other known for fear our parents will hate us for it, or get a divorce. We have had sex, I lost my virginity to him, and in no way shape or form do I regret it. I dont know what to do, I want to be with him for real, but I know people would think it was weird. So just tell me what you all think.
-Confussed in Maine
Well, you're 16--so I think your parents may be pissed more because you're in a "Church Youth Group" and had sex. Not that I care, but I would think they might. I also think a lot has to do with the forbidden thrill of this relationship.
I have a feeling if you don't tell them in a calm manner, it will all come out way ugly; like when you're making out at on the den couch some night. LOL.
