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May 13, 2009, 10:56 am PDT
05/12 How to Be a Better Parent, Part 3
Quote From: louiseitisWatching that miserable woman terrorize Davia was like watching my own so called "mother". That witch is just like mine. Davia needs to be taken away from her NOW! I happened to have been a strong person who learned to ignore being told that nothing I do or don't do is ever right, that I have no right to have opinions or feelings, and having every thing I say ignored or criticized as if I have no right to speak. Its still the same after 44 years. Davia may not be that strong. Even if she is, why should she have to be terrorized by this evil witch? All I saw in that footage of her trying to ignore the tiraid that was staged to incriminate the child, was a kid trying to hide from the hatred always being thrown at her. She tried to ignore and avoid the fight, but she was being goaded and blamed, and had no way out. Nothing she ever does will ever please that witch, or make her love her, and Davia will always try, only to be hated and criticized at every turn. The poor kid had hope. One day she wont, and shell be blamed for that too. I hope her life doesn't turn out like mine. I always knew I was hated. I ignored it. They only loved my little brother, and that's fine, but when it came to doing their abusive garbage to him, I stood up for him, and they stopped, and they hated me even more. I was maybe five at that time! I see no hope for Davia, because that mother is the one with the problem, she always hated her, and it will never change. You can see it, even if you arent me. Whatever the child is doing is because of the mother, and maybe a survival instinct. It is not obvious by the lunatic's behavior or by her vicious words that she EVER loved Davia. Sorry, I just don't see it. The mother will never change. Save the girl Dr. Phil, please!!! She has nobody else. I signed up just to say this. I agree 100%! I was sooo enraged after the episode, that I signed up too! I wish everyone could realize how severe this situation is. How REAL it is. People think that every mom has a little 'tammie' in them. That may be true. But recognize that Tammie is a monster all the time. Not just every now and then when she loses it. I am so sorry for what you went through and I am so happy that you signed up to share your piece and your story. Thank you!
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