Quote From: topstitchAlthough, my husband hasn't left, he has made my life a living hell reminding constantly that I am not living up to my contributing my fair share to the household finances. He might as well have left me because he will leave me home to fend for myself while he is out pursuing his interests with his friends. And, he has no qualms about it. I am lucky in the fact that my kids have grown and are out on their own, but I don't get a lot of help out of them either. If you want to read my story, I posted the details earlier on this list. I was totally surprised to see that someone else was going through what I was going through. I thought my situation was unique. My friends and family know how he is and are willing to label him as a jerk, but most of the time, his family or friends have no idea or turn a blind eye to how uncompassionate he is. I sympathize with your situation and will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. J
My heart goes out to you. I really don't know why our spouses behave the way they do. Maybe they are worried to invest time and emotion into someone that might not be there for them in the future. Which i think is a crap excuse.
I took our vowes seriously , for better or worse, for richer or poorer, in sickiness and in health to death do us part.
I wish you the best of luck and try to be strong i know it is tough. I myself am loosing faith and strength and klingin on by a thread, can not take this
