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June 21, 2009, 11:05 pm PDT
 Quote From: tnt22009 I'm 19 years old and 2 months pregnant with twins. This is my first pregnancy. My partner and I are extremely happy. He already has a 4 year old that will be five in January around the time the twins will be born. My problem is that we are having to keep the pregnancy quiet because of his wife. They are legaly seperated but not divorced. I don't see where I should have to keep anything quiet. I am so thrilled but I cry alot because I can't tell all my friends and family because of the situation. I don't see it fair. And on the other hand there is a huge possibility that she too is pregnant with her boyfriends child. So I don't understand why I am going to have to be the one that goes throughout my pregnancy being so secretive. Does anyone have any advice on what I should do in this situation? Please tell. I need some help. Hi There...Wow so your having Twins, wot a Blessing! Especially because its your first Pregnancy too CONGRADULATIONS! You must be Static. You should be HAPPY! Fo real. Well as for your situation goes with your partners ex wife, I SAY.... that he needs to deal with that and tie up any loose strings.Its really his call to tell the ex that you are pregnant and both are expecting, not like its any of her business anyway.And you shouldnt have to worry about that, thats his problem! NOT YOURS! If anything I agree with you, I dont see why you should keep it a secret.Unless theres something floating in the backround? I duno, im not an expert but how ever I sense something is not right in that picture.You shouldnt have to hide anything.Seriously.Its really un-wanted stress that you dont need right now..ok now..yes its normal to get emotional, but NOT FOR THE WRONG REASONS..I know your partner must be very supportive, but because of the "situation with the wifey thingi"You need the support of your Family & Friends.I SAY...Just tell them.Maybe they can shed some light on the situation and Im sure they wudnt care two Hoots about your partners ex..I think there main concern will be YOU.dame as Im reading yours and my messages its starting to disturb me.lolz...Anywayz this is suppose to be a special Highlight in both your lifes. You deserve to be happy.Think About YOU and YOUR TWINS, because thats all that Matters, Anything eles outside your circle.DOES NOT MATTER...ok I hope that wil help.Let Your partner deal with thaatt SITUATION! Be happy...PEACE |
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