Quote From: cybiloneI remember well. Have been very ill. But am better now. Got good news and Bad news to update on.
Good First, I bought a house 2 yrs ago and it is really nice.
Bad News, Well, ex came back and has lived with me for the last 2 yrs. I needed someone to take care of me and had no choice. Last night it got out of hand and I called Police. They took him to his friends house to sleep off the drunk. I'm going in the morning to get a restraining order and because of the laws here I have to get an eviction order also.
When I bought this house he was so wonderful to me and really did a lot of work on it. I really believed it was different.
I know better , a leopard doesn't change his spots EVER
I have a bad heart now and can't take this kind of stress.
But I have good friends to help. The police were really great. Just wish they would have hauled his A__ to jail.
Huggs, Purrs (4Kitties now) God Bless
Cybil
Oh my goodness, Cybilone. I am so very sorry to learn of your illness. Thankfully, you are doing well now.
I recall your apartment, with Grandson, so to hear you purchased a home 2 years ago is yes, certainly good news. I bet its adorable.
Now for the bad news---Gee whiz, he's still drinking himself cuckoo! I cringe at the information that EX was back there, but I knew and recall some how that there was that possibility when he was helpful at the beginning of your declining health.
Thank God, you called the Police last night. Good girl !
You've walked this road before and you're doing the right thing , stick to your plan. Restraining order, and as you explained --- eviction.
Cybilone, I'm sorry its turned out differently than anticipated.
It's imperative you take care of YOURSELF. Thankfully you have good friends around you. Lean on them. Friends, true friends are a God send. Often women who have been isolated have no one left around them for support.
Save all your strength for YOU just YOU.
We are all here for you.
Take very good care of yourself.
Your safety plan needs to be in place.
Write here, write often--- stay in touch.
I care.
Take care.
